Month: May 2016
Last week, my husband and I took a cruise to celebrate our anniversary. We love traveling together and enjoy being on a cruise ship. This year, we choose to travel on one of the largest ships in the sea. It was massive and had a number of features we had not experienced on previous cruises.
One of my favorite features was finding art in every stairwell, landing and hallway. Each piece of art was curated from a different part of the world. They covered countless countries and cultures. With the luxury of free time, I stopped at different pieces to read about the artist and his/her inspiration.
Each piece took on a new meaning when the artist’s background and what they hoped their work would bring to mind was explained.
Context changes everything.
Unfortunately, context is rarely obvious at first glance. We have to dig deeper to understand the context behind a piece of art. We have to do some research to understand the context of quotes or religious scriptures. We have to build relationships and ask questions to understand the context of human lives, actions and emotions.
I left our trip wanting to work harder to understand the context surrounding the lives of the people around me. It is hard to serve people well if I don’t truly know them.
Here are a few questions I plan to ask more frequently (when appropriate).
- How did the place you are from shape who you are today?
- What are the one or two most defining moments in your life to date? And why?
- What is something people think about you that isn’t true?
- How close is the life you live today from the life you want to live?
These questions may be too personal to ask in some relationships. Don’t be alarmed or offended. Do feel privileged if someone is willing to share any of these answers with you. Clearly, they trust you.
Which question do you think reveals the most about a person?